Anxiety Boyfriend Issue....please help me....I dont know how to deal with this one...?

Don't listen to Shirley. Obviously, she has never dealt with what you are dealing with. I am a guy with general anxiety disorder and my fianc� says the same things you have described. In my case my wife will try all of these things that you have and I react the same way. As you have noted, your bf has some stress he is dealing with. The guy has a lot on his mind. I have found instead of asking if he wants something just do it. Like give him a mage without asking. Whether he shows it or not he appreciates it. Don't be afraid that he wants to split-up. He doesn't. Trust me. Give him like a few hours of alone time and he will respond. In the meantime read up on what he is dealing with so that you have a better understanding. Here is a website that you and him can both benefit from: www.projectpanic.com. It's packed with great information and resources. The administrator is great at replying to your suggestions and comments as well. It's gonna be just fine.