Is it me , am i going mad or is it her ?

Hi I would kill for a bloke like you, does your wife not realise what she has got in you. I am sorry to say this but your wife sounds lazy, you deserve some recreation and yours is going to the gym, I was left to do everything in my home my ex was in the TA and used to say "i don't do mundane things like the garden, and decorating" i used to everything and it was hard especially when the children were young. He left for a younger model a few years ago, Good Luck to her i say...... it's not you it's your wife, she will only realise what she has got when you have gone.